What are you really grieving now?

I want to be really honest with you: Your biggest grief is not actually about him, no matter how hard that was or how much he suffered. It’s not about him. You have probably already mourned what he went through and what he lost. What you’re grieving now is what YOU...

Free Zoom Workshop

FINDING PEACE IN PANDEMIC TIMESEMAIL ME TO RESERVE YOUR SPACE! Sunday, March 7, 3-4p.m. EST It’s coming up on a year. We’ve been isolating and staying home and forgoing trips to see family and friends for a year now. No wonder we’re all so tired! For...

Is Grief Holding You Back?

What would he want you to do now? Grief, shame and guilt. When my husband died at 55, I unwittingly invited all three Cinderella sisters to my pity party. (No one really wants to bring those girls to the ball but they show up anyway, don’t they, wearing some garish...

Valentine’s Day Zoom Event

It’s the weekend of love. Cards, chocolate, flowers. You remember, right? But when your spouse is gone, it’s often a lonely day, one that is filled with memories of days gone by. One that seems to make the loneliness of widowhood even more painful. Because...

Is Grief Holding You Hostage?

When grief freezes you it can take a long time to thaw out! Grief is very sticky, and, as you’ve probably discovered, it’s also sneaky. Grief doesn’t go away on its own. When I lead A Widows Tale retreats I am always amazed to find that those women who have not...